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Why children don’t expect to be bored

For many, children have become a real mystery, as though they’re from another planet. Feeling they have failed, many parents ask themselves ‘Where have we gone wrong?’Don’t be too hard on yourself: Children today are different. Massive shifts have taken place in Western culture in recent years. Never before in the history of civilization has a generation grown up with such a massive cultural change.The world really is different to the world you knew and grew up in. Despite the fact that you live in and experience the same world as your children, you probably don’t step back and analyze what it must be like for them. You maybe too busy surviving yourself! Today’s fast-paced, non-stop, multimedia world has brought with it two problems:

As children grow up in this exciting world, they tend to develop the expectation that they must always be excited. Today’s kids don’t expect to be bored. They don’t understand that boredom is sometimes an inevitable fact of life. However, boredom is something all children need to develop the skills to cope with. As children (and people in general) experience a new level of excitement, their thresholds tend to increase.No matter how exciting something is at first, it tends to lose its excitement value, so people seek out something higher, faster, brighter, or louder to excite themselves. You can see why drugs are so appealing to young people – theirs is a world of constant buzz, where boredom isn’t acceptable. Drugs provide the excitement and fulfillment so many children have grown up to expect and yet never seem to find.

Being bored doesn’t mean something’s gone wrong – it isn’t a problem and doesn’t need fixing. Today’s world may be different but you can still help your children handle being bored in simple yet effective ways. For example, show your kids how to play Solitaire, hit a ball against a wall, practice catching, ride a bike, read a book, and not seek excitement constantly.These everyday activities may just save your child’s life.

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